Hi,
Just a thought - did the old 14 pin harness terminate with two plugs that connected behind the dash? If so, that's a period pair of Toyota radio connector plug/sockets. Hopefully, they're still in there and the - either connected to the 14-pin harness - or with that radio harness wires being crimped 'behind' those sockets.
If they are there, then you can get third-party harnesses that connect those to different systems. If you're connecting a new recent head-unit, then it may well have an ISO connector option (ISO plugs on end of a small harness that connects into the back of the head unit).
If that's the case, then you can get an ISO to Toyota connector kit that should take care of everything.
The Toyota sockets look like this:
A head-unit to ISO harness will look something like this (hopefully came with the unit):
And the Toyota-specific ISO adaptor is like this (in the UK): https://www.halfords.com/technology/car-audio/stereo-fittings/toyota%2Flexus%2Fdaihatsu-iso-harness-adaptor---ct20ty01-581881.html