Hi!
Ok, so the old filter is probably a metal gauze, just back flush it to clean. I'm not a fan of filter changes TBH, can't see the point.
Cork and glue - well, it's just cork and glue, for glue use any decent gasket/glue suitable for engine fluids and temperatures. Cork - any model railway shop, floor tile shops etc, for the right thickness. A very sharp knife and a cutting mat.
Fluids: the ATF type will be written on the dipstick "DII" is expected, so any Dexron II or III is fine.
But check!! Also in the engine bay, there are plates with it, or look up the gearbox model and research. But in general, I would expect DII.
Dirty oil. Ok. read carefully!! New dextron is a very very good cleaner.
This means, in the first few miles, a LOT more black will appear.
Your sump is only a partial change (3L or so), as the Torque Converter is not usually easy to empty.
So you need to use this change regime:
New DIII -> Drive 10 miles (or less, this is the BIG clean)
New DIII -> Drive 20 miles
New DIII -> Drive 50 miles
New DIII -> Drive 100 miles
Then you will notice that the old fluid coming out is a nice pink colour. When this happens, you can relax but do another change after 500 miles.
If you just change dirt autobox oil once, the dirt that's carefully stuck to every surface of the box gets cleaned off and starts blocking up small oil passages that you really don't want to be blocked.
That's why changing dirt oil is usually a big gamble. But if you follow the above regime, the dirt leaves the box in good time, so it cannot do harm.
Enjoy, and find a good cheap bulk source of ATF DIII and some new squish washers!
And a decent funnel to fill it via the dipstick tube.
Remember to check the level when running, so you need it about right. get into the habit of measuring what comes out and stick the same amount back in, and then just check when running.
I did this regime on mine and it's been fine